Illustrative courtyard bar setting with crystal glassware and candlelight

San Antonio & surrounding celebrations

Wedding bar service,
thoughtfully planned.

Thoughtful cocktails and a warm welcome for the people you’ve brought together.

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Private bar service SET + STIR

For the people you’ve brought together

The drinks are part of the evening.
The hospitality is what holds it together.

SET + STIR brings cocktail planning and wedding bartending services to San Antonio, Alamo Heights, Boerne, La Vernia, and San Marcos—with the menu, setting, and guest experience considered together.

01 / Before the celebration

Make room for
the details.

Clients purchase the alcohol. Your proposal confirms staffing and responsibilities for the bar, glassware, ice, mixers, garnishes, and equipment.

The people & the menu
Guest count and your preferences for cocktails, beer, wine, and nonalcoholic drinks.
The place & the pace
Venue arrangements, setup access, and timing—from cocktail hour to the close of service.

02 / The drinks

Two citrus-garnished cocktails in crystal coupes on cream linen
Flavor, glass, garnish. Each detail considered.

Start with what you like to drink.

A favorite classic, a personal cocktail direction, or a focused beer and wine selection. Your tastes give the menu its starting point.

Make space for zero-proof.

Nonalcoholic drinks belong in the same conversation, with equal attention to flavor and presentation.

Your final drinks and service details are agreed during planning.

03 / The welcome

Behind the bar,
a life in hospitality.

Crystal Bosquez
Founder, SET + STIR

More than 20 years in hospitality, including experience at Hotel Emma, shape Crystal’s approach: thoughtful preparation, clear communication with your event team, and a warm welcome at the bar.

Meet Crystal

A few practical questions

Before we
raise a glass.

A clear starting point for your wedding bar plans.

Who supplies the alcohol?

Clients purchase the alcohol. SET + STIR helps plan the cocktail experience, and your proposal clarifies responsibilities for the bar and other supplies.

What affects the cost of wedding bar service?

Guest count, service duration, menu complexity, staffing needs, and venue arrangements shape the proposal. Share your date, venue, and estimated guest count for a tailored conversation.

Are glassware, ice, and a bar included?

Those details are confirmed in your proposal. Tell us what your venue already provides so responsibilities can be planned clearly.

Where does SET + STIR serve weddings?

San Antonio, Alamo Heights, Boerne, La Vernia, and San Marcos. Share the venue location with your inquiry so event-specific arrangements can be discussed.

What should we send with an inquiry?

Your wedding date, venue or city, estimated guest count, and any initial drink preferences. An inquiry starts the planning conversation; it does not confirm a booking.

Your celebration, thoughtfully considered

Tell us about
your evening.

Bring the date, the place, and a little of what you imagine. We’ll begin with a conversation.

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